|When I learned David Hussman was coaching in Kiev, I asked him
Non-dogmatic folks live comfortably with paradox.
We know that light is a wave, and also that light is a particle. The discoveries made in the infinitely small world of particle physics indicate randomness and chance, and I do not find it any more difficult to live with the paradox of a universe of randomness and chance and a universe of pattern and purpose than I do with light as a wave and light as a particle. Living with contradiction is nothing new to the human being.
~ Madeleine L’Engle
Living with duality is no revelation. We have two eyes, two hands, two feet, etc. We are curiously cognizant of our inner and outer worlds; like the experience of being in an artificially lit train car at dusk
In a railroad car at nightfall, when the natural light outside has diminished until it is even with the artificial light inside, the passenger facing forward sees in his window two images at once: the dim landscape rushing toward him out of a pit of darkness, and the interior of the car, reflected with its more or less motionless occupants. At this hour most passengers unconsciously give allegiance to one of these two polarities of vision; and the individual momentarily aware of both may be struck by the profound, almost tragic duality between outer and inner worlds, between the rush of experience and the immobility of awareness.
~ Robert Grudin, Time and the Art of Living
There are apparent dualities in the agile manifesto that are seemingly contradictory.
|Deliver working software frequently||versus||Continuous attention to technical excellence|
Is it a contradiction to deliver frequently, but attend to excellence? Can one be frequent without eschewing excellence?
|Deliver working software frequently||versus||Promote sustainable development|
The lesson is to avoid fixating on any particular dictum and to seek sensible balance. David Hussman might refer to this as finding your agile groove.
Is it possible, in the strictest sense, to be frequent without sacrificing quality? Probably not. Yet we try because we’re human.
We thrive on reaching for the practically unattainable, because…we can. That is the absurd pursuit of living. When Woody Allen acknowledges
I am at two with nature. ~Woody Allen
he’s celebrating contradictory dualities with a sense of humor….uh, which reminds me of a line from the end of Annie Hall
Alvy Singer: [narrating] I thought of that old joke, y’know, the, this… this guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, “Doc, uh, my brother’s crazy; he thinks he’s a chicken.” And, uh, the doctor says, “Well, why don’t you turn him in?” The guy says, “I would, but I need the eggs.“